The other day I strolled into one of my favorite second-hand book stores looking for treasures. I went straight to the sex shelf, the one next to the self-improvement and psychology. I was specifically after books about fellatio, or about oral sex generally, as I was planning to write a blog post as a response to one of my readers. Plus, a book about giving oral pleasure can be fun to have, no?
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One of the more unexpected lessons the universe offered up last week is that the spectrum of male attitudes toward cunnilingus is anchored by DJ Khaled on one end, with the Rock holding down the other. Which is something sex researchers already knew well, at least when it comes to heterosexual relationships a study published last year in the Journal of Sex Research found that both men and women in same-sex couples have oral sex more frequently than those in opposite-sex couples, and that women, in particular, were more likely to enjoy it. According to the National Survey of Family Growth, a nationally representative survey of adults in the U. In a study published last year. We talked to 11 sex therapists about gender imbalances in oral sex, what they hear about it from the people they see particularly among heterosexual couples , and the advice they give when they see it causing an issue in relationships. There are certainly cohorts of men who feel entitled to oral stimulation, yet are unmotivated to return the favor.
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Do we really know how our partners prefer it? Hard or soft? Use of teeth, tongue, lips — the list of unknowns is long.
Oral sex is one of the most intimate things you can do with a partner, not to mention, it also feels really effing good for whoever is receiving it. Seeing your partner in the throes of passion can also be a huge ego boosting turn-on for the giver as well, which kinda makes oral sex a win-win. If you wanna make sure your oral game is the best it can be when it comes to not only giving but also receiving, read on. Just like everything else with sex, getting crafty and mixing it up with a new trick or two is pretty low-risk, high-reward. Morgan also recommends blindfolding your partner obvi with their permission , as it heightens the senses and makes erogenous zones even more sensitive.